Post by lvaorve on Dec 14, 2016 21:48:43 GMT
so it's come to my attention that for the new folks that the current unanimously booted out or deemed unwelcome to the community do not know this. however, instead of telling them up front -- like they should be doing -- they beat around the bush completely, ignore folks, and generally make them feel shitty. how fucking hard is it to tell someone that they're unwelcome, along with a reason why, and that you don't want to hear a rebuttal?
yeah, it makes the community sound elitist/circlejerk as fuck, but it makes you even worse if you just fuck about with them and watch them go about and ask 30 diff people before figuring out, 'hey i'm not welcome here.' i think it's absolutely ridiculous that no one i've spoken to can just fucking grow a pair and a pube and tell them to fuck off because of <x bullshit reason here>
don't leave people hanging. it's a waste of everyones' time and interest, and just makes you look incredibly shitty
so basically, as aforementioned
i propose this:
grow a pair and tell people that they won't be accepted and why
if they question or try to dispute, tell them you don't want to hear it and stand your ground instead of just blowing them off
while yes, just as equally if not less shitty than blowing them off in the first place, they'd at least know 'why' they're not welcome
thanks
p.s.:
also please don't talk shit about people unless you can back it up
p.p.s.:
this thread is no longer relevant and has served its purpose
yeah, it makes the community sound elitist/circlejerk as fuck, but it makes you even worse if you just fuck about with them and watch them go about and ask 30 diff people before figuring out, 'hey i'm not welcome here.' i think it's absolutely ridiculous that no one i've spoken to can just fucking grow a pair and a pube and tell them to fuck off because of <x bullshit reason here>
don't leave people hanging. it's a waste of everyones' time and interest, and just makes you look incredibly shitty
so basically, as aforementioned
i propose this:
grow a pair and tell people that they won't be accepted and why
if they question or try to dispute, tell them you don't want to hear it and stand your ground instead of just blowing them off
while yes, just as equally if not less shitty than blowing them off in the first place, they'd at least know 'why' they're not welcome
thanks
p.s.:
also please don't talk shit about people unless you can back it up
p.p.s.:
this thread is no longer relevant and has served its purpose